This Is Where I Leave You

2014 • Comedy, Drama • R

When their father passes away, four grown, world-weary siblings return to their childhood home and are requested -- with an admonition -- to stay there together for a week, along with their free-speaking mother and a collection of spouses, exes and might-have-beens. As the brothers and sisters re-examine their shared history and the status of each tattered relationship among those who know and love them best, they reconnect in hysterically funny and emotionally significant ways.

Runtime: 1h 43m

Why you shoud read the novel

Jonathan Tropper's original novel delves deeply into the emotional lives of its characters, providing richer, more nuanced insights than the film can offer. The book’s sharp humor, poignant reflections, and raw dialogue invite readers to inhabit the protagonist’s internal world in a way movies seldom achieve. If you appreciate stories that tackle complex family dynamics and personal struggles with empathy and wit, reading the novel is a rewarding, immersive experience you shouldn’t miss.

Adaptation differences

One of the most notable differences between the film and Tropper's novel lies in characterization and depth. While the movie touches on the personalities of the Foxman siblings and their mother, the book devotes considerable space to developing their backstories, giving a deeper understanding of their motivations and flaws. This richer portrayal creates more empathy for the characters and offers a more layered narrative. Additionally, the novel’s tone is often darker and more introspective than the film's, balancing its humor with genuine pain and reflection. The adaptation, in contrast, often opts for broader comedic beats, sometimes diluting the book's emotional complexity. As a result, some of the more biting or explicit content from the book is softened or omitted for a wider movie-going audience. Events and subplots are also streamlined or altered in the movie adaptation. Several secondary characters—such as love interests and extended family—are either minimized or changed, resulting in a faster-paced but less intricate plot. The book offers multiple layers of interpersonal history and unresolved conflict that are only lightly touched upon—or lost entirely—in the film. Finally, the ending of the book is more ambiguous and reflective, allowing readers to sit with Judd’s personal transformation and the open-ended nature of family relationships. The film, by necessity, presents a more conclusive and upbeat resolution, matching audience expectations but ultimately missing the novel’s subtler, more realistic aftertaste.