How to Deal

Dive into the original novels by Sarah Dessen for a richer, more nuanced exploration of complex teen emotions and relationships than the film offers. The books intricately develop the friendships, family dynamics, and inner turmoil of the protagonists in ways that invite deeper empathy and connection, providing context and emotional growth that are sometimes lost in the cinematic adaptation. In 'Someone Like You' and 'That Summer,' Dessen expertly weaves moments of quiet vulnerability and gentle resilience that let you resonate with the characters’ journeys of self-discovery. You’ll savor the beautifully written, introspective passages and the realistic dialogue that illuminate real-life adolescent struggles far beyond what can fit into a two-hour movie. If you want a thoughtful coming-of-age experience filled with relatable heartbreaks, hope, and personal transformation, turn to Sarah Dessen’s novels. The slow, immersive pace and the authentic emotional landscapes are simply more satisfying on the page.

One major difference between 'How to Deal' and the books is that the movie blends together two separate novels—'Someone Like You' and 'That Summer'—into a single, condensed story. In doing so, many characters and plotlines from the source material are merged, altered, or omitted, resulting in a simplified and more conventional teen romance that departs from the layered narratives of the novels. The movie’s protagonist, Halley, takes on roles and experiences of both Scarlett (from 'Someone Like You') and Haven (from 'That Summer'), creating a composite character that loses some of the unique depth and individuality given to each girl in the novels. For example, the emotional gravity and realistic depiction of best friendship and shared trauma in 'Someone Like You' is only lightly touched upon in the film. Significant supporting characters and subplots are also minimized or excluded entirely. In the books, family relationships and nuanced side stories play crucial roles in shaping the protagonists. The adaptation streamlines these elements for time, leaving out the growth and resolution found in parental relationships and sibling dynamics that the books handle with greater care. Additionally, the tone and pacing differ greatly. Dessen's novels provide introspective and gradual developments that allow readers to process the characters' interior lives and motivations. The film, aiming for a brisk, marketable narrative, sacrifices much of this depth for a more upbeat and emotional-romantic resolution, which glosses over the authentic messiness and healing processes depicted so well in the books.